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*unkyfairy121
writes:I am so confused! there is this guy that I have liked for ages and ages. we work together and are always flirting and the tention was just building and building. the night before last, i had a few of my friends round from work, including him. well we walked down to the bottom of the garden that night so i could show him my horse and it happened. he kissed me. said he'd liked me for ages too. neither of us was drunk and we stayed down there for ages talking and kissing. my folks are away for a few days so i asked if he wanted to come over the next night and watch a movie with me, which he accepted and seemed really exited about. the next day he texted me saying hey baby not long now i''ve got to take my mum shopping, as soon as i'm done ill come over. that was at half 6. i stayed up until half 11. he never came. i tried texting him again, calling, our mutual friend also tried to call him but neither of us could get through to him. i was beyond upset. i had spent all day looking forward to it and planning what to wear and picking out the perfect movie and then i just sat in tears all by myself. this is the first time i've been stood up (and i'm not 100% sure if i have as i dont really know what it means) and i didn't know what to think. i am also worried about him, because surely he would text back? and if not then answer our friends calls? i hope he's ok. i think i am in denial because it is too upsettng for me to think he just didn't show without any kind of message. what should i do? call? and how should i act at work tommorow when it will just be me and him! help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): I know how you feel! I've just had my time wasted by some silly women i met through this website, but won't go into details. I'm obviously not gonna speak to her again, but for you seeing this guy at work, i think you should just act naturally and don't show that it bothers you. Just say something along the lines of "i'm sorry you couldn't make it to watch the movie with me, i hope everythings ok". I'm sure he'll at leased respond to it if you put it to him in a general way. If he doesn't speak to you or not bother showing up to work then i would just let it go, there's plenty more men/women in the sea (not literaly lol but you know what i'm saying). I went out last night and got absolutely slaughtered (on alcohol), and ended up going home with three women (So we can always make something positive out of a bad situation). There's a lot of impolite, disrespectful arseholes on this planet tho too, and if we don't want to get the sour end of the candy stick then all we can really do is not associate with them. Good luck and don't let it phase you. Rifraf!
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