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writes:Hello,This is not exactly a sex problem, but it really confuses me. I'm 19 years old, a girl, and so is my friend, female too, and we have gone in the same class since kindengarten My friend and I used to be so close, and used to have long and good conversations. I really loved them, I really loved her and she really loved me and we would say I love you quite a lot, like all friends do?Nowadays, she changed. She is so different and acts weird, she is so insensitive and she never says I love you back. It makes me feel so gay.I don't think of her like "I want to kiss her" or anything like I do with guys I like, it's actually a very different feeling. I wanna spend times with guys I like being close to them and hugging them whereas I wanna spend time with her telling her about the guys or about life. But It hurts me that she doesnt say I love you to me.Does this make me gay?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 Why not cut the "I love you" out for a while. She might be uncomfortable with it these days.
You are both growing up and maybe even a little apart?
Maybe she has outgrown the "i love you" part of the friendship. Could be someone pointed it out as to her and made her feel weird about it. So cut it out.
Also, you can LOVE someone without having to tell them constantly "I love you".
Loving your friends doesn't make you gay.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (18 June 2012):
Sounds more like you have a hard time accepting change, after all, people do change. It's not like she is in a relationship with you where she has to say it for it to be known.
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