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writes:There is a girl I have been close to for a year now. There have been times I have felt attracted to her, times where I haven't. The first time I stopped was when she started going out with her idiot ex - this was before we were as close as we are. Then a few months later these feelings come back. She split with her BF, but around this time my feelings for her decreased.I have started in uni now. I saw her though last weekend and today, and I think I may be falling for her again.Throughout all this we have been very close, and I don't know how are friendship could be closer without us being in a relationship. We care a lot for each other. I can't act though as she is in a relationship. If she liked me around that point I was either not around (uni) or didn't seem interested.We have this connection. I go out of my way for her. We trust each other completely. And I have these feelings that never really go. I think I might really be falling in love with her. Do you think I might be?I can see us together one day as we are both young, (19 and 17)and even if we have other people along the way I can imagine it as possible in the future when we really get to know each other even more and are able spend time together. (she might start in the same uni - I might do a postgrad so I might still be around) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): well mate i think you're just getting a bit of a crush.i was in the same position wih a polish girl, i thought because every time i was near her i fell to the floor, i was in love with her. but it was just a crush.i never asked her out, and it turns out it was a big mistake, because she was mad over me, longer than i was over her.so ask her out, it could be bad, it could be great.
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