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writes:I am 48 and I fall in love with an 18 year old. I dont know how, but I cant live without her. Am I cheating a young girl? Should I look for a older woman only to get out of my deep emptiness in my life. But I dont find or I dont like any of the older women so far. What is my problem? I feel I am injustice, but at the same time I feel like going right with my heart. Please advise me friends.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): It's natural to be attracted to younger women than 48. But I would think you could strike a little more of a happy medium than 48 and 18.
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reader, pova  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 You should not decide by yourself only. You should ask her that. You still have a hope for her agreement. It is selfish to decide alone. I wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): You should talk to the girl your seeing and find out what her views are on the matter first, she may not feel like shes being cheated. In the end though you should do what you feel is right for you and no matter which path you choose at least you can be happy with the choice yourself.
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reader, luvy duvy  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 I think you should look for an older woman, but before you do anything...talk to her about how you feel. If you still feel the way you do...then, you look for an older woman.
If things don't work out with older woman...go with your heart, but your heart and mind have to say the same thing.
Good luck!!
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