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female
age
30-35,
*egan Chelsea
writes:ok, well im a 19 year old female and my other half is 22. we have been rock solid for 3 years this march, however its been mentioned that he really wants to join the raf this year, as his career at the moment is hitting a brick wall really. dead end jobs etc. so fore the past 3 months i didnt think that he was being serious about the raf and it would soon be in the past... but he is going to sign up this week. he has thought it out well and is doing it for all the best reasons, saying he still wants to be with me and that he wants to do this for our future childrens lives and just to be financially settled. i thought to beginwith this is a fantastic idea and i would be so proud but as the months drew closer i cant stop thinking how much im going to miss him, my heart jus breaks thinking about it, i always agree with him and be positive towards him but inside and the nights we arent together i just cry. we both still live with our parents at the moment so we spend all weekends and week day nights together when we are not working. i really feel like i only have him and only want him, i know if he does do this then i will soon be going out with friends again more often and making more time for the gym etc but it will be the lonely nights and only seeing him every 8 weeks or sometimes longer. all i want is him and for us to be happy. should i tell him that i really dont want him to go or just hold it in for when the day he leaves! he is my soulmate and he is only doing this to have a benefit on our lives but id rather be with him than without him.
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