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After birth, sex has become less enjoyable

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Question - (26 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ayLoLo writes:

I recently gave birth to my son who is now 13 months old. Latelty during sex with my husband I have become increasingly wet and I'm not able to "feel" him. We haven't been able to "finish" and its really frustrating me. I don't know what to do I practice kegal exercises, I use ben wa balls often and nothing seems to help. What else can I do?

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A female reader, Jesslove United States +, writes (26 January 2009):

Jesslove agony auntgive it time to heal. there have been girls known to be "loose" by having too much sex, but then lay off the sex and become tight again.

there is also something call vaginal reconstruction, which i looked into for later down the line for a situation like this and basically you go to a doctor and he can make you as tight as you want. being increasingly wet isnt a bad thing at all. if you dont want to put any money into it keep doing what your doing w/ the kegal exercises and going without it for a while. you probably wanna keep him satisfied so try looking inot "different" things until your feel comfortable having sex.

also try this site (:

http://www.momversation.com/forum/sex-after-having-baby

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