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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone!My boyfriend cheated on me in the past, but we are trying to work things out. It happened when he took a trip to another provice to do a final presentation after his schooling there was done. I just found out through facebook that he is planning another trip there, and he has been talking to the same girl he slept with, who offered him to stay at her place while he's visiting. Obviously I am very against this-he slept with her while we were together and wants to stay in the same place as her?? I am convinced it would happen again given the temptation. I have told him I have no problem travelling there with him and meeting the girl (who is a friend of his, go figure) but this is a trip he is planning behind my back, and I'm a bit offended that he would even consider seeing her again, let alone consider staying with her??? Am I being totally unreasonable? Should I trust him to go out there and be faithful? Thanks everyone!
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (6 September 2010):
 you're not being unreasonable, in fact I think its awesome that you're willing to meet this girl and see if you can trust her, ya know?
Does he have a legit reason for going there again? Its quite suspicious that he planned this behind your back, you have every reason to be weary. However, it sounds like you confronted him about it and told him you'd be fine meeting this girl and allow him this trip. After all, if they are just friends it wouldn't be a problem.
If I were dating a guy I'd not like him to sleep over with the girl he cheated on me with...what girl would?
you are NOT being unreasonable, don't worry.
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