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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really don't know what to do , I don't want to sound like an immature little girl but all of this is really getting to me. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now and I love him so much. The problem is he has just started a new job and a very pretty girl works there who he sees/ spends time with every day. He only started a week ago and since then I have been in the fear he will leave me for her . I have very low confidence so knowing my boyfriend is spending all that time with her upsets Me. I do trust him and don't think he would ever cheat. But it doesent stop him liking her and leaving me for her. It hurts as I see a future with him and now I'm not sure. He noticed I haven't been very happy lately so I told him the truth and his response was that's ridiculous we are complete opposite to each other, but I feel he was just saying this. Please help,thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2015): Looks really aren't everything... She might be dull as dishwater, have completely different interests to your boyfriend, or be a total bitch!
If you want to win your boyfriends heart, you should be supportive and enthusiastic about his new job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2015): Work on your self confidence because you are pushing him away with your insecurity and moodiness. With the new job, he needs your support now more than ever. He needs someone to confide in about his frustrations and excitements. Through your insecurity, you are making it difficult for him to share this new experience with you.
Really. Start working on your self esteem. Today.
What is it about yourself that you don't like? Change it? Of you can't change it, love it. Accept that he loves you warts and all. But it starts with you loving yourself.
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