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writes:Okay. So I've met this new guy at the grocery store, he got my number and we'd been texting. We've went out twice and while I'm definitely attracted to him (he's really cute!) I haven't really seen much of his personality. He seems kinda... boring I guess. See I like a guy who is competitive and playfully picks on me and stuff. Because that's what I enjoy doing. And I haven't seen anything from him at all so I'm not sure if he's shy, or just lacks personality. Well anyway, after our last date he stopped texting me. I sent him a text but he never replied back. Now, he's not much of a texter to start with and he is rather busy. But now i'm starting to wonder if I'm being ignored. Which, in my opinion, is quite 4th grade. He should be able to tell me if I'm not his type. Or at least that's my opinion. So this is kind of confusing I suppose but should I text him again? Should I call him out on ignoring me? or should I just let it go since it was kinda seeming like he wasn't really my type anyway?What would you do in my situation??
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Hey well just remember the golden rule then.
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reader, beeka1001 +, writes (6 August 2009):
beeka1001 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks alot. I think i'm just gonna leave it alone for now and see if he does anything about it. cause, i'm not upset that he may not like me. i'm more bothered that he's ignoring me. i'm not used to that. (actually, its normally me doing the ignoring haha) so mostly. i'm just really annoyed by it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Maybe he's just too boring to text you back. Or if he got the text at work and couldn't answer it, he may have forgotten about it. I'm guilty of that at times.
I'd give him a call if I were you. You can't leave everything to a text. If he doesn't answer or call you back, then forget. let it go.....
~Sy.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 i'd just let it go, cause you did say you like a guy who picks on you and you can muck bout with and he lacks in all those. He's not what you want, so why are you wasting your time chasing after him. If you want to comfront him then fine thats your choice, so txt him saying ruffly why areyou ignoring me? and if he doesnt txt back thentis his loss. But maybe he's lost his phone?
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reader, justme..x +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Hey :)
There are lots of perfectly reasonable explanations - he might have run out of credit, have problems with his phone or just hasn't received your messages, bla bla etc etc. If you're worried you're being ignored, go see him, face to face, and just ask him. There's no point playing guessing games. You'll end up reading way too much into it.
And as for the personality thing - give him a chance. He may well just be shy and nervous with a new girlfriend. And if you still don't click and there really is nothing there, then - well its not the end of the world. Its always worth a try :)
Gd luck x
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