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Am I being a fool to stay with him ?

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Question - (8 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

i have been with my bf for 3years.he was married for 15yrs. divorced 2yrs. he has no children, but had a horrible marriage. he told me it started the day of their wedding and they ended up coming home early from there honeymoon ( which was in hawaii, unreal , right) he told me eventually he wants to get married...am i being a fool to stay with him..he still does not want to live together..i see him almost every nite..and every weekend..he is a good man, does a lot for me...and does love me..i was married for 23yrs , divorced 7yrs and have two grown children who live on their own...so help ..do i stay and wait ..he is 44 , i am 51...thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008):

well if you love eachother and you both agree that you can wait and both can say you see you guys being together for the rest of your lives then yes its just like me and my girlfriend i used to live with my brother and i only seen her once in a while and we've been doing great for over a year we live together now but i can tell you this much the wait was well worth it i couldn't be happier but again you can only wait so long for someone so if you love him and think it will be well worth the wait but in all honesty your really the only person that can answer that question take a look around you and see what is there and what is not and see if you can live without him or not listen need moreadvice just e-mail me let me know how things go

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