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writes:I am in a relationship with a man who I've known since high school. I thought we were meant to be together and we talked about having a sexual relationship for a while and how often we wanted to do it. Now that we are together, we hardly do it. Its making me feel like he's not attracted to me.I am a little over weight and he is in good physical condition. I feel like we don't have sex like he said he wanted to because of my weight. When I question it, he says he's tired of me asking about it and makes me feel like I'm going to push him away even more by questioning it.I want to have sex with him all the time and he does'nt and that worries me... What should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): Hi there, that is no way a guy should treat you. You've tried to talk with him and he doesn't give you answers. Clearly there a problem I would advise you to find someone that's gonna love you and appriciate you. Sex plays a big role in a relationship and if he makes you feel like that then unfortunately the relationship wont work. you'll end up being unhappy forever. If he's not giving reasons for he's actions then that shows that he doesn't care much about your feelings. I hope everything works out remember you are a beautiful person and you deserve to be happy and someone that's gonna make you happy in every way.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (20 May 2007):
 There is a definite difference in the sexual drive of two different people. Some people want it more, and some want it less. He might just be saving himself for the right moment. He also may feel extremely pressured about it. Stress affects the male's willingness to have sex. If it feels like it's a mandatory thing, rather than something special between two people, than he's going to be turned off. Give it time.
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