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writes: My boyfriend is 3 inches when erect, so penetration only occurs when he's standing, with my legs on his shoulders, but difficult for him to orgasm then or for me to stimulate with my kg(?) muscles. He does orgasm with me masturbating him and we do have oral sex. He's very overweight (hard to lose it!) (I accept his "shortness"). Any other positions we can try? Missionary a bit difficult 'cos if he leans on me he's too heavy - otherwise we're a good 'fit' sexually. We're both older."Debra"
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): Thanks! Will try your ideas. One good thing is that he is concerned that I have orgasms (preferably multiple!) before he does. Considerate. I have thought about doing some sort of leg-stretching exercises so that I can stretch my legs enough to be on top....any ideas re. yoga, or me exercising??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): You could try this, I can't do it too oftern coz my girlfriend always gets in pain when we do this position coz it feels like ramming against her womb.
It's similar to the one you describe, but instead of putting your legs on his shoulders, lift them back further towards your head (put them slightly to the side) and arch up your waist area, his body (maybe his arms and hands) should be able to help support you, and he can also hold on to your thighs. You should be at a position where your vagina is raised enough so he can enter you whilst on lying on his knees, your anus should also be accessible too, basically it should leave you pretty exposed, he can have a good perve at his penis entering you, and if you can sit up a little, you can look too, haha. He should be able to get a good hard and fast motion going and ejaculate in this position!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (14 June 2006):
 dear "debra" i have the same problem with my other half he is a big bloke and sometimes i don't even feel him.there is loads of stuff you could try and you both need to remember having fun doing it.just do what we did shuffle about the bed a bit and see what works.one thing that has worked for us is..... now this is going to be hard to explain but i'll tryif he lies down on his back, you face his feet put your left foot under his bum (his left bum cheek) (just a little so it don't hurt) and your right leg over his right leg.it will feel like and probably look like your humping his leg but it can feel really really nice if you get it right.other then that keep working on it you'll find the right thing for you.good luck and have fun keep me posted xxx
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