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writes:I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while.We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excuse after that we stopped talking.We then starting flirting and I arranged to meet him but something did come up and I had to cancel but I told him why, he replied another time, and I relpied something else and he just replied back that we wanted different things he just wanted a bit of fun nothing serious. Again we didn't speak after that.Over the last six months we have begun flirting again and we both gave into temptation and snogged (a lot of sexual tension). He was turned on and now I am thinking what will happen now as I really want him but I have never had sex or give oral I have only ever kissed and he has lots of partners and if he only wants sex then have I been stupid kissing him. Can this have a happy outcome, what should I do next.Thanks for taking the time in reading this.
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (10 March 2009):
Yeah, im gonna go with the “hes a moron” theory too. I figure you should just be honest with him and let him know what your looking for in a relationship. If he bolts, forget him. If he'll wait, wait until your ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): this guy doesnt know what the hell he wants....
i say go with other guys..let him free..after all ur worth more than a one night stand. seems to be what he is after "no strings" etc..hoping he can flirt to get you into bed is probably his aim :( guys can be so thoughtless. make him wait for you. its all or nothing tell him!
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