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writes:I have never had a boyfriend and I am turning 21 this year! To be honest, I am very worried now as I am already in the third year of my university life...... And I often gets depressed when I get questions about why i never have boyfriends before. There are guys chasing me then but not now however, i have never manage to meet the one i am interested in.I am not desperate for guys and actually there are quite a number of people commented that I am pretty and youthful looking. Nevertheless, love still doesn't comes knocking on my door yet...Will I be able to meet my true love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I guess I will just let things flow naturally.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 You might you might not there no gurantee, you could end up with ten kids or ten cats possibility and uncertainty is the spice of life.
Go with the flow enjoy the life you have theres a bunch of post from guys in here saying the same thing ahhh sigh... maybe you can hit something off with one of them, and 21 is the beginning of life not the end so you have time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): OF COURSE YOU WILL!
Worrying about things like this at your age isn't new- we've all been there, as some of us developed a bit later than the rest. Relax! The important thing is that you develop a sense of confidence in yourself, and avoid falling into a negative state. Take care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally- and you'll have a confident sense that will attract people to you. If you let yourself go, gain weight, look unbecoming and spew negative words, the odds of you finding a BF drop alot.
Next, get out there and mix with folks where you might find a guy that has interestes that align with yours... figure out what they are and then develop freinds in areas where they might hang. A change of job may be in order, or joining some social or charity groups... networking can be fun, and you can make alot of freinds that you'd otherwise not ever found!
Good luck, and relax - you're likely to find soemone when your not out there hunting!
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reader, beachbabe  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 of course you will find love. You need to become more sociable and smile =]! Attend parties with your friends and have fun! =]
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reader, rom  +, writes (16 August 2009):
who Knows its not a science! you can go through life for years never meeting the right person then a chance meeting and you find Mr right. All I would say is dont be to worried about it that you take second best you are still young and you may just meet the man of your dreams tomorrow.
Good luck
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