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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am having a real hard time now to my husband.He was retired when he is about 54 years old. Then he got divorce to his first wife, i dont know exactly the main reason bout it but all i hear is all about money.i am his 2nd wife. We are now 7 years together and actually living ok. But then now he is always complaining about money, money, money, money and im getting tired of it. because actually we dont have a problem with money. I dont work stable here i only do some extra job since i resign from my former job. Because we have to do it for some important reason.We both agree to live with his retire money. But even though its still ok because it is enough for us to live with this money. And we till have money which is stock in the bank. and we are not using it. But then everyday i always hear his complain about money money money money shiiiiit money. I know how important the money is. But please anybody here, c'mon, no matter how rich you are if you never get content inside of you you will never be happy. And he never get content in his life. I tried hard enough to explain everything, that what ever happen we will be ok. I put a lots of tears everything but already too much.. Im getting now to my edge. I love him so much and im content what ever we have but he is forcing me to go away in my feelings. he always use the excuse that its all because of me, that he dont want me to suffer and he want to give a good life to me, and im trying to explain to him, he will never give me a good life only for money. All i want is peace of mind and being content. But in our case he is the one as a man who is always looking for money money money money.... GOD" im getting tired of it, sometimes i have a feeling i want already to give up. its really hard to deal with this. he is always acting like he always depress because of not having a bunch of money, money money.....please anybody give me some advice... im really needing it. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Have a discussion with him again, and tell how much you love him. Tell him, it does not make you happy when he constantly talks about money all the time. He says he want to make you happy, but I feel it's about the depression he is feeling inside. If he continue to do this after all your discussions, Pray for him to see a therapist about his depression.
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