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writes:hey, it seems as if all my friends got their own life now and i feel like i have no one. all my friends have boyfriend and jobs and are too busy to do anything latley. im unemployed and dont have a boyfriend and it seems all i do is stay in. ive tried geting a job and i am still trying and i do want a boyfriend but all i do is stay in so i cant met new boys/ people. its really getting me down and i feel like i have no one and i am alone. have you got any ideas what i can do to make me feel better?? HELP PLEASE? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for these answers they have really made me think and realise jst moping round the house isn't getting me no were thanks you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): You could do some voluntary work. It looks good on your CV and also you would meet people and feel useful, which is very fulfilling. To do that, go to your local Community Volunteer Centre and find out what kind of work it could be. You could do just one day or half day, or more. It would give you something interesting to do and talk about.You could also join something local, depending on what sorts of things you are interested in. Ask at your local library for clubs, community centres and things like that, or pick up leaflets. There are also social clubs for different age groups, where they all go out together for social evenings. You could join a gym, go swimming... lots of things are free or reduced if you are unemployed.Hope this helps.
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reader, kevin3007  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 i think you need more time you can't have a job and a boyfriend and all what you want just like that i think you should try harder a littel bit and by the way it all starts inside of you cause once you beleive you're great you'll feel better and speaking about boys i know ther is some one out there who waits for you some one you can't see till you'll be ready and remember you're not alone cause every body has some one ....good luck my dear and hope you'll reach to all your wishes.
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reader, Amiex +, writes (14 July 2010):
look if you truly want a boyfriend you need to get out of the same four walls of your house and live your life don't waste it and maybe if you talked to your friends they would understand and maybe set some time for you like a shopping trip or something
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reader, NatreeRose +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Yeah, I've been here before! I know how hard it is to get a job right now, darling... it took me 5 stressful months to find the job I have now. And worrying about that will definitely make you feel worse. I know when I was in this situation, I picked up a couple hobbies. I tried kickboxing (where I got in great shape, had a physical outlet, and ended up finding a gorgeous boy to fool around with after class ;) ), art classes at the local art school (best friends I've ever made), picking up guitar, going to shows & concerts... really, it's easy to get yourself out of the funk. You just have to DO it!
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