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*oneii
writes: I just never really liked a guy like him and we are best friends so I told him I like him he said he doesn't like me only as a friend. He said he likes my friend. I just feel not good enongh for anyone. All my friends have a bf but not me. Guys never are interested in me I just feel worthless.
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reader, Brunel +, writes (27 March 2010):
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Take a look in the mirror= Gosh who is that attracive girl looking back? It is you, you are attractive, sexy and intelligent-no arguement there.
Take time out to do other things - your time will come when you are good and ready. Then you will find that you will have lots of boys after you. That is just the way these things work!
If at thie time you are feeling a bit down sort out your wardrope and change your hairstyle an dmakeup. That will give youu a new focus!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): My dear,
Just because you do not have a boyfriend does not mean you are worthless. Although you may not realize it, I am sure you have a secret admirer or two out there that are simply too shy to let you know how they feel. Give it some time; continue moving forward with your life-advancing your career or continuing your education. It is only a matter of time before you find someone appropriate for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Okay 1, your not worthless. 2, Are you putting yourself out there? Like, are you trying to make yourself noticed? I have a friend who believes the same thing, that her friends get all the guys and she is stuck with all our left overs. But that is not true, she never put herself out there, she always went after the guys who were unattanable, and she thought she couldn't get someone who actually wanted her.
You need to understand, that you can get who ever you want, you just have to know what they like how to get them to like you. It's basically like a game, all you have to do is play it well.
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