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writes:Hey, im 14 but have never had a boyfriend:( i have never kissed a boy or done anything!!!!!!All my friends have..i just have really bad confidence..and im overweight and i dont think im pretyy...pweezz help someone just to give me advice its making me really unhappy..i need help thanks.
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reader, cnfsdnluv  +, writes (19 June 2007):
The ONLY way to be happy in life, is to be happy with yourself. It sounds corny, but it's true. Find things that make you happy - maybe sports or a hobby or maybe even losing some weight will give you an added boost of self-confidence. You should love yourself for who you are, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to change little pieces of you - and doing so - as long as you are doing them for yourself! I just finished reading a wonderful book - it's really short and sweet, so you might want to give it a try. It's called "The Four Agreements". It's a guide to personal happiness by following 4 simple "rules" in life. I think you might find its lessons a bit inspirational and eye-opening. Good luck and be happy life is too short not to smile!!! :)
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reader, azzy +, writes (18 June 2007):
How do you no all your friends have done anything with boys have you seen them doing any of the stuff they tell you? I doubt it very much.I suspect your friends may be telling you white lies to fit in. Every 14 year old in the world is feeling the way you are i no i did. If your friends have kissed boys so what belive me boys aren't that great and their is no rush to have a boy friend. your time will come to find your dream boy.If you really wanna loose some weight you could join after school clubs that could help you loose a little weight,eat more fruit and veg and cut all your fatty foods and drink plenty of water if you don't want to join any clubs try doing sit ups in your bed room and riding a bike to school? im sure your not as unattractive as you make out and their will be some one who will love you for who are.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Hey babe,
Don't you worry about things like that not having had a boyfriend or even kissing one is no huge great deal at your age, your confidence will grow with you i had no confidence when i was your age and i felt similar things about myself, all of us are beutiful people in many different ways and never forget that.
Just enjoy your childhood and hanging out with your mates and the rest will all come in time.
Take care.xx.
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