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writes:This is an awkward question to ask, but here goes:I sometimes like fingering myself in the ass...I also I imagine girls doing it to me and even wearing strap-ons and humping me!I'm straight and only like girls that way,is there something wrong with me?
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (19 August 2008):
There's nothing wrong with you! You've found a new and exciting way to pleasure yourself. Big deal.I used to do the same when i was your age. It get's better when you use things bigger than your finger LOL! At your age, i don't think girls are open minded enough to wear a strap on.
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Yes it will hurt. As I said, you will probably find the fantasy far more pleasant than the actual experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks, great answers!And one more thing I want to ask:If I do find a girls that will do this with me,get a strap-on and lube,will it hurt?Will I feel numb?Or will I experience overwhelming pleasure?
(Oh, and thanks for the link DocDell.I don't think I'll ever be bored again lol)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): its not as uncommon as you'd think but most girls your age will probably think its strange as they're naive. so i'd only bring it up with a long term girlfriend
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (16 June 2008):
Nothing wrong with you at all.
It's a "fetish" like any other, although you would probably find that this one is far less pleasant to actually experience than it is in your imagination.
I assume you surf porn? The "strap-on/anal humping" image is not something that many straight men think up for themselves. It's usually closely related to the "dominatrix" fetish - a desire to be sexually controlled by a powerful female.
Don't worry about it - but a word of warning: if you MUST stick your fingers up your backside, make sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are very short. You can do damage to the inside of your back passage if you aren't too careful, and there are dozens of nasty infections you can get that way. Wash your hands thoroughly afterwards - and ALWAYS before you masturbate.
Also, I would be inclined to be a little careful about who you tell about this. It's easily mistaken by the ignorant and ill-informed as a desire for a gay relationship - although in fact it may be more closely related to unusually strong heterosexual urges (as with many of the more out-of-the-mainstream fetishes) that needs more than "conventional" sexual activity (or, at least, more than conventional fantasy) to satisfy it fully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): It's usually much older guys go for this when they've run out of ideas!
I guess it's something you need to get out of your system but I imagine it would be tough finding a girl in your age group willing to comply with your fantasy.
You could always discuss your needs with a professional (prostitute)and, after the reality decide that it was just a phase.
If your craving persists then in my opinion yes - there is something wrong with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Nothing is wrong with you, fingering your self while you stroke is normal, its actually a method of masterbating I myself like doing that as well, it gives a better sensation when you hit to orgasm, and I'm also a straight male, for more methods, go to, www.jackinworld.com, and don't be worried, as long as it feels good, I'm not stoping.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Nope, nothing wrong with you. It's called experimenting. Everyone experiments to find out what they do and don't like.
As for the girl 'humping' you, you're curious I think. Curiosity is getting the better of you. There's a slight chance of you being slightly bi but as you like only girls I'd say this is unlikely
You're only 16 so still young and experimental about things. You'll soon find out what you like and what it means etc.
Good luck
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