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*orriblyinlove
writes:My Boyfriend broke up with me on January 23rd 2007. He always told me he loved me and even after he ended it he still said he loved me and always would and said he wanted to get back together later on. The past two months though all i've had is hate messages from him. I tried talking to him but he just told me he didnt want to speak to me and his mates say he's moved on and i know i should too but i cant...i think about him everyday and i dream about him every night. All i want is him holding me again, telling me he loves me and that i'm his world again. I know this is never going to happen and i have to move on but i just cant...i dont want too...please help mex
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Hello! I have been in exactly this situation. I know it hurts like hell now, but I promise its going to get better. The best thing you can do is stop speaking to him (if you see him just be polite, say hello and walk off). Its going to be hard, but seeing him or talking to him isnt going to help you at this time. You need to start spending much more time with your friends, and maybe you should think about getting a new hobby. You just need to occupy your time and your mind. Dont worry, things get easier I promise :) Take care xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): I know that it's hard to move on but remember, you will do as time moves on. Stop talking to him and ignore him instead as talking only going to make things worse. Think about what a waste of space this guy is and that you'll never get back with him anyway so there's no point wasting your time thinking about him. Just remember, there is someone out there who is better than him and will give you all the love and respect that you want.
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Awww babes,
Give this guy some space, not so you can get back together, but so you can be his mate, im sure you would prefer to be his mate then nothing at all.
Youve got to get out there, try new things, speak to new people and not dwell over this one guy. do something radical like start spinning randomly in a field like you did as a kid untill you felt sick.
be yourself and if this guy is still being out of order, then you deserve much better.
You sound like such a nice person, so dont let that creep get you down,
Good luck :D :D
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