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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all my ex boyfriend completely changed when I had a miscarriage he turned from someone who was kind caring and loving to someone cold and argumentative with me after the miscarriage he put me down all the time said he needed space then less than a week after the miscarriage he told me to get out of his flat that was three months ago over a stupid pointless argument which he caused now ive been feeling so guilty even though I didn't do anything wrong but look after him i wouldn't even argue back with him that was three months ago and have had no contact at all even though he was like he was with me i still miss him like crazy how can i get on with my life and forget him thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): Thank you for your replies little miss hope your ok to x
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reader, xxlittlemissxx +, writes (9 June 2013):
I don't know the answer to this because I'm going through the exact same, he chucked me out 3 days later, it's only been a few weeks but no contact. I just wanted to say I hope ur ok. U deserve better!! I'm learning that - but it doesn't make the hurt go away or the feeling like I do miss him at times. Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013): Hi There!
Reading your story makes me so sad for you.
I do think your bf badly wanted to have a child.
why did you have a miscarriage?
O.k, you don't need to answer. whatever the reason, his behavior is not acceptable.
If his behaving this way, i say his no longer in love with you.
A man is so different from a woman. Once a man starts behaving like he no longer cares, he really means it.
But Us, its a different story, we may act like we don't care, But we don't mean it.
The only reason why his caring for you during your pregnancy because he wanted IT so Badly. Now that your no longer pregnant, He has no reason to Stay with you.
His action is so transparent. even if i don't know him i can definitely read him so well. If I am wrong, well I'm not perfect. But If I am right, its time for me to start writing an e-book about men.
Lastly, I want you to read my article about How to save your self from the stress of MR. wrong. its a very helpful article that will help you change your mind.
Don't think about the good times you had with your ex bf too much. remember its all in the past. past is past. Think about NOW. how miserable you are because of him. And you didn't do anything. If he really loves you, he will never have the heart to let you go.
You miss him and feeling crazy missing him, that's easy to fix. Listen to this songs:
1. gives you hell- American Rejects
2. So sick of you- Selena Gomez
3. never ever getting back together-Taylor Swift
4. i dont miss you at all- Selena Gomez
5. see you in another life- Miley Cyrus
6. I will survive - cake / Gloria Gaynor
7. Maybe Possibly- Megan & Liz
8. Im not missing you - Stacey orrico
9. Happy- Hilary Duff
10. King of wishful thinking - Go west
so many songs that will help you forget him. Don't let that man steal away your joy in your heart. Be happy. Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2013):
Your going to have to find inner strength and put him to the back of your mind.. What support are you getting at he minute ? Do you have anyone to talk to?
It's crucial to have support of family an friends and to grieve for the little one you've lost, no matter how far on you were..
So if family aren't then try talking to them to get them on side, open up
A little.
As for this guy, treacle you have had a lucky escape it may not feel like that now but honestly you have .. To kick you out after a week shows his true colours and your going to have to face the fact that it was the baby that was holding him to you, not his love for you
You are more than lovable that I am sure . So here what You do ..
Take time .. Heal from your loss
Go out with friends and family
In a few month get a membership to a gym or go swimming
Take up interesting hobbies
Love yourself first as if you can't no one else can
Tell yourself your pretty your smart and damn well important and one day the right person will come along.
Until then take care keep us posted x
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