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writes:Ok, so me and my ex messed around again and we did it 2 times in one day. The first time he was going really fast before he pulled out, and when I stood up and seat back down I felt some warm, liquid come out of me. Then the second time we did it he did the same thing and I was sitting down and felt some more warm liquid come out of me and we I looked where I set down it was white stuff on it. I don't recall him pulling out to come but when he did pull out he flipped me over and continued . So did he come in me ? Or was that my liquid coming out of me or his? That was 5 days ago
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 April 2013):
 No darling, if you can't even distinguish semen from your own secretions, it's debatable that you are " grown up " enough for sex- responsible sex - let alone for having a child. Then again, even admitting you are ready to be a mother- does it have to be such an " oops! what happened ?! " kind of pregnancy ? Can it not be PLANNED ?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 April 2013):
 But if you are ready for a child then why haven't you found a man to marry, or be in a steady relationship with?
Do you WANT to be a single mother, and were you actively trying for a baby?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTO REPLY BACK YOU EVERYONE ANSWER: thank you a lot for the answers, and I know a lot about sex, and transmitted disease ...My Bf and I already got checked before we did it so I know that I don't have a STD. I just wanted to know if that was my liquid or his i wasnt really sure so i asked for advice. I know everything about pregnancy and sexual diseases. And yes I'm ready for a child financially and mentally I raised my cousins baby everyday I know the consequences that come with a child. Plus I help raised my mothers 5 children , she works nights and sleeps morning so I'm already feel like a mother. I'm out of high school, but if I'm grown enough to have sex I have to be grown enough to deal with the consequence and I, ready for them but thanks a lot for the advice I was looking for thank you a lot :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): He did come inside you. I think you need to educate yourself about sex, because it sound like you don't fully understand what you are experiencing. Unprotected sex can have serious repuccussions like sexually transmitted diseases and can result in pregnancy. Visit your doctor for a pregnancy test and STD check ASAP, and ask for some educational brochures so you can understand better. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): you say that this guy you had sex with five days ago is now your ex? So if the pregnancy test shows you are expecting a baby are you going to be left to sort this out yourself with no proper partner to support you or help?Let me guess....he filled you with his "white stuff" as you call it and then walked away from you and left you to deal with the consequences? The white fluid did not possibly come from you, it was his ejaculation. Even if he pulled out before he ejaculated you can still get pregnant. OP at aged 18-21 your an adult now and should have the maturity to take responsibility for your actions in a sensible way. If you don't understand how babies are made or what the "white stuff" that's inside you after sex is then you really need to find this stuff out before "messing around" again. You really need to take a pregnancy test, preferably at the doctors or family planning clinic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): I'd get a pregnancy test done at doctors (they are more accurate and quicker ) and if you aren't pregnant that is lucky. ..and use protection next time. If you are pregnant you'll have to sit your boyfriend down and sort it out xx good luck Hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): Yeah he did come inside you.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (7 April 2013):
He came inside of you. That was semen. Are you on any form of birth control? You are probably pregnant if you arent on birth control... This is how baabies are made.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (7 April 2013):
I hope you're ready for children.
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