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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:I've been dating a guy for a cpl of months.Not sure what we are.Hadnt seen him in a cpl wks.So we got together - had a fun movie/pizza night.So one thing lead to another and we slept together.I dont normally have sex until I'm sure im in a committed relationship.After, I was cool w/ it but now I'm nervous that he wont want to hang out anymore.3 days later *today* I sent him a msg askin if hed wanna hang later in the wk.Normally he gets back the same day but he didnt reply.So Im curious if the sex ruined it or made it complicated.I dont know if i'd want him as my bf..but I DO enjoy his company and therefore still wanna hang with him, sex included.When we met we talked bout what we were lookin for and he recently got divorced and barely started dating anybody.So we've just been enjoying each others company.So I dunno if I should read into him not replying or tell him that I enjoy his company and the sex but that I'm not thinking it's a relationship, that way he doesnt think that I do or feel like he needs to run.Or maybe say nothing? Cos I know some guys freak out..they think ur in love w/ him once u have sex w/ them and thats not always the case.BTW I talked to him after we hung out..I asked him how some concert went.We talked briefly..
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (20 November 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question true true. he wrote me today to let me know hes busy this wknd w/ classes but maybe we can hang next wk. i just wont worry bout it anymore.. and will have a talk w/ him when i see him..if i do or over the phone.
thanks for the advice :)
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (19 November 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe txted me that night after hanging out to let me know he got home okay. and i talked to him a cpl days later bout some concert he went to- i txted askin how it went. and 3 days later i msged to ask bout hanging out (cos id rather plan)..which was yesterday.before sex we hung out & talked once a wk. so its really not much diff..cept he normally responds the same day - which he didnt w/ this last msg. maybe he did just want sex though...
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