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writes:i met a guy up with a guy after 6 years i got his number by accident so i chanced texting him, went well enough. he came to see me which went well then i went up to see him. have no idea how it went, im so confused hes either shy or just not bothered. he was very sweet but i couldnt tell if he had feelings for me, he kissed me goodbye and niether of us said that we'd meet up again. of course id really like that but i feel i done a good bit of work and i am wary for myself as i dont want to get hurt as i have been badly hurt in the past? 6 year relationship that ended and im new at all this dating. also i havent said why my past relationship didnt work it out because its sad and dont feel we know each other well enough. should i give up or try some more if it helps? hes a taurus im a scopio.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 That's a good sign that he kissed you on the first date..and there's no need to bring up the ex factor it only makes the conversation awkward plus it's the past so let it stay there. Abide by the "don't ask, don't tell" rule. Give him 3 days starting the day after your date to call you. If he doesn't call in that 3 day window then he's not that into you. Then, oh well you didn't really know him..Next! Dating can be fun once jump back on that horse..keep an open mind, not every guy is out to hurt you, beware of the warning signs to avoid jerks, don't talk about the ex or ask them how many people they slept with, and be a good listener. Have fun!
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