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writes: My girlfriend and I had been together for about a year before we broke up and I came back to Ohio. We only had two major fights during that whole year, and they were both caused by me telling her that I didn't trust her, when I really meant that I didnt trust her friend (come to find out in late February that I was right about not trusting her friend). The second arguement ended up with me grabbing her arms and pushing her away from me because she had gotten in my face, and I had left bruises on her arms. We've been separated since November, and like normal she's looking for other guys, but she keeps telling me that she still loves me and that she's still in love with me. I've beaten myself up over what I did every day, and she knows that I have. My question is, how do I know if she's playing with my heart or if she's being sincere?
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reader, lookie +, writes (14 March 2006):
start again from the begining, remember why you fell in love in the first place and talk about it with her im sure you will be able to tell if she is genuine or not. if not put her straight and tell her to stop messing with your heart.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (14 March 2006):
 Well you do know that what you did was wrong so we will not labour the point, it does seem like she is moving away from you, she is looking for another bloke and when she finds one that will be that.
She may still love you and be in love with you but not want to be with you, she may feel that while you are sorry for what you did she just cannot trust you not to repeat it.
You mention the friend but dont say why you have a problem with her, as this all seems linked it would maybe make things clearer if you told me why you have a problem with her friend.
I think you need to move on from her, she is not going to get back with you by the sounds of it, and nothing you can say to her will change that, you have already said enough to her, so to continue trying is just futile and degrading to you.
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