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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Since taking things further with my boyfriend (second and third base) I don't feel anything at all when I touch myself. I put my hands on my body and the only thing I can think about is how desperately I wish they were his instead; there's no point in pretending that they are either, because I can't fool my mind. We don't get to see one another very often, about one weekend every 2-3 months, which makes it even worse. Don't get me wrong though, I miss everything about him of course, not only the physical aspect of our relationship! He's my first boyfriend but I honestly can't imagine anyone could make me feel the way he does, in every sense. I don't know... I'm so confused. I guess I can live without masturbation but I still wonder why it's completely devoid of pleasure now. Is that normal, and is there anything I can do about it? Many thanks in advance for any advice given :)
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (10 June 2011):
 im in the same boat here, masturbation does nothing for me anymore, its just your body bassically saying ive had better then this!!! its like getting used to a certain type of pain killer, it has no effect after a while. all i can suggest is maybe toys or possibly female viagra to stimulate you and make the clitoris more sensitive. i to have a partner whom i only see once every 6-8 weeks so i know how you feel. one thing i have found that does work (that is if your both in to it) is having sexual conversations online i.e MSN or skype, they seem to get things going lol. i really hope this helped hun. dont worry its normal and your not alone xx
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