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writes: okay I've been dating this guy for a little while and he seems to like me. We haven't kissed yet which is a good thing I guess. I don't like rushing into anything. Anyway, we talk on the phone every night for fours! We don't really have anything important to talk about. It gets kind of boring sometimes but I stay on the phone with him because I don't have anything better to do and also because I want to get to know him better.We were talking tonight as always and he told me that he doesn't have any friends. I don't remember exactly what happened but he said that they all became distant when he started working full time. I am afraid that the only reason why he wants to be with me is because he doesn't have any friends. Or does he like me?? He says he does but i'm not sure after what he told me tonight. Sometimes I think that he's just lonely. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
Your reason is his reason. Look at what you wrote "I stay on the phone with him because I don't have anything better to do".
You may not think of yourself as lonely ... but, maybe he just phrased it wrong. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Also, does it hurt ... "I want to get to know him better." to spend time talking to him? Maybe he's not right for you now or ever ... but at least if you continue talking to him, you'll know.
And, I wouldn't let what he said bother you. Relationships are companionship, are they not?
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