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writes: Hi I'm girl of 20 and been with my boyfriend who's 27 for 10 months. The thing is lately with been arguing about and its putting pressure on our relationship. Every time we argue he storms out, then afterwards we make up over a text but not in person. When he walks out it hurts me but I know we won't resolve it if he stays. Also what still eating me is the fact that he was in a 7 year relationship with his ex who's now 54 and I just don't understand why we're arguing so much when we haven't even reached a year! Also it's been affecting our sex life as he gets floppy and depressed for not satisfying me when I assure him he does. But instead he has a go at me and says he's going through a typical man's problem called "bruised ego". Now this makes me feel down and immediately can't help thinking that if he could get it up with his ex throughout those years they've been together...why he not with me and has a go at me? I really want to save this relationship.Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2007): Hi the i am replying to you cause i am also in the same shoe as u are i am 25 and my girl is 20 we have been together for almost 4 yrs and we quarell for sily reason and finally come to a blast off and what u fell towards ur guy i fell the same just leave him for sometime my girls gets al waht she wants from me let be anything but i know i am not ahppy at times but she is also not happy she wants me to trust her and leave her alone as she has her X keep calling but that hurts me badly u know i dont interfere now but i have told her if i come to kow anything sly happening ill kill him ..,,,,, cause i was cheated once and she promised me she wants to marry me so i started trusting her now and belive in her sop ur that kind of girl at this age ur not steady u need to have steady mind only then he will be happy... ifeel .
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reader, becky05 +, writes (14 July 2005):
You sound like you are arguing a lot, if this is the case after only 10 months together,then it is likely things will get worse if they are not sorted out.You have to sit down and talk about this. If he refuses to communicate with you i think it would be best to end this relationship as it does not sound like you are happy at all.
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