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writes:Alright so I'm wondering if I should be nervous about this or not.I've been going out with this girl for a bit over a month, and we're getting along ridiculously well.Anyways, yesterday she drunk dialed me and told me she had a couple things that were bothering her. She said when her friends ask how things with us are she intentionally downplays it, she says it's just to avoid questioning. She also is hesitant about telling people I'm only 18, whereas she's turning 24 soon.Then she told me She doesn't want me to end up getting hurt by her distancing herself. However, when I asked when she meant by that she assured me thing were still good and she had no intention of ending it. Which I think is true, but I still find that a bit confusing.I think she's having a hard time with it because her last two boyfriends were long term, and didn't treat her very well. So she tells me starting a relationship was just something unexpected, but that she would prefer it this way. Which I believe, it was her idea for us to start dating.So do I have anything to worry about? She says I don't, and I do believe her, I still feel a bit uneasy though.Thanks.
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reader, cuteysar  +, writes (8 December 2008):
you need to talk to her sober about this.
id say she was telling the truth, alcohol is a great truth serum. think about it, shed have no reason to make up some crap about your relationship even if she was drunk.
i think shes probably struggling with the age gap. im 22 and i wouldnt go out with someone who is 18, and i definitely wouldnt if i was 24.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (7 December 2008):
 If she was drunk when she called you then you can't necessarily take what she said at face value. I think you should bring these issues back up to her when she is sober and see what she has to say about it then. You might be nervous about doing so, but as long as what she said is worrying you at the back of your mind, then this is a discussion that needs to be had. Good luck =]
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