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anonymous
writes:I have just split up with my girlfriend after 7 years. She finished it yesterday morning, after i fell asleep at my parents in the afternoon. My phone was not working correclty and she was worried i hadnt turned up and got her mother in the end to find out where i was. Bear in mind she lives in 50 miles away at uni at the moment. I know i havent paid much attention to her recently, but i love her more than anything. She said that we were over and she needs to find herself again, and maybe in a few months something may happen again, but not now. I dont know what to do is she just very angry with me still, or have i blown it. I dont want to lose her after so long, and i am ready to do anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThaks for that, spoke to here earlier and we just talked about how that we need this space apart, as we were only childer (15) when we got together. If we are meant to be then we'll get back together, until then we need this time apart. I think i am coming to terms with this now. Maybe and hopefully i can woo her back to me in some time in the future. But for now i need to grow up and find myself, just as she needs to find herself
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): First of all after 7 years she should have been a little more understanding if you were just asleep. There must've been something else going on in her head. If you really love her 50 miles is not that far, I drive 30 to get to work everyday. She's in a new environment and wants to check things out. Give her a little space but still call her every now and then just so she knows you're thinking about her. Try talking to her and see what she's thinking. Just don't get mad. Be understanding. Support whatever she wants and she'll come back to ya! Good Luck!
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