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writes:hey my peeps! Listen to my soppy story and see if you have any advice for me. Well im turning 19 in July.. This is my first year out of school. When i was in Grade 11 me and this other girl named "J" started talking through texts and calls. she had o boyfriend and they were already dating for a year ad ia half that time. I started getting feelings for her and she for me. Then we whent on a tour together and got really close. everyday chats and calls. we didnt talk at school as her boyfriend was at the same school. but after school we would always talk. she was a dancer and i always whent to watch her shows and stuff. sometimes even visited her at home. so she left her boyfriend for me but at that time i was going through a difficult time.. Family issues and stuff so i had to leave the country for a while, however i didnt get the chance to tell her i left, so when i got back they were together again... uhm then we stopped talking for a while as her bf knew what was going on and he didnt like me, but we started talking again. i really liked her and still do. i love her. but then in grade 12 something happened. dont know what it was but something happened. oneday we were talking and the next day she just didnt want to talk to me. im thinking somebody that doesnt like me or hate me just told her i rumour or about me that made her feel that way.because theres nothing that i couldve done thats so worse or horible that she would cut all contact after everything that we'v been through together. this is the third year now,im still in love with her, still love her, still miss her, still CRAZY over her. however she wont talk to me. WHAT DO I DO?? please help. i just want to talk to her again and hear how lifes treating her and stuff. she is the first girl in my life that i feel so strong about. i mean for 3 years and she still isnt out of my system. just give me a way that can enable me to talk to her again. thanks in at advance. and please dont tell me that i should try and forget bout her because thats not posible, i already tried that. MWAH to all. much love Demaschio
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reader, petina1  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 I can see from her point of view it must be hard to trust you now. You just left the country without telling her you were going. Don't you have a phone at your place, or at the airport, or where you went to. That, in anyones eyes would be no excuse just to go and not say why at the time. She obviously does not want to come back to you or that is where she would be right now. Her boyfriend must know about your relationship with her and he is wary of you also and maybe he is asking her to keep away from you. I'm sorry but it doesnt sound hopeful. I won't say forget about her but I would try to ask her what her feelings are on this so at least you know. hope this helps.
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (6 December 2008):
 You CANNOT make her talk to you.
Maybe she worked about what that her relationship with her B/F is more important to her than you are.
I'm sorry if that is not what you want to hear but maybe she's realised she can't have a relationship with you, you have already admitted you can't get over her and maybe she can't cope with you in her life.
One of the hardest thing's we go through is moving on from our first love and most of of us think we never will but we do we meet someone else and we are happy.
Good luck
xxx
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