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writes: after 13yrs of our marriage he wants to leave me .help me to deal with the situation we still live together Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): I am in a similar situation in that I am living with my husband but seperating. It is hell, I know, especially at first. The problem you need to be careful of is losing your rights to your home. I suggest to first seek advice through your local Citizen Advice Bureau as if you leave the home you may lose some rights. I am not sure about that. I would have preferred to have moved out, but I am committed by children and financially until my home is sold. That is the financial reasons, but obviously the shock and emotional dealings are a lot to deal with and ideally it is better if you can talk rationally with your partner and keep civil with each other. It may help to access counselling to talk to non judgemental person about the whys and wherefores to help you through the mental hoops you are bound to travel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2006): Your question is a little vague, so I'm not really sure how to approach it, but I found a little article online about dealing with divorce that I thought might be helpful to you. I wish you the best of luck and I really hope everything works out okay. Stay strong!
http://www.lifetimetv.com/reallife/relation/sexpert/sh_nodivorce.html
~RJGirl
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