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writes: i dont no what to do... i need some advice.. o.k there's this grl i really like..we get along great we're really close..she's like an angel, i dont stop thinking about her, but im afriad to ask her out, for multiple reasons 1st- if she says no, i dont want the friendship to be ruinned 2nd- i dont really no how she feels, i mean she's all smiles, shes kinda hard to figure out, i dont no if she just sees me as a guy friend 3rd- my parents dont want me to date..and if she says yes im gonna have to date her on the down low, and i dont have a cell phone, the only phone in the house is my dad's phone and hes always at work (were gonna wanna tlk to eachother constantly so that'll be a problem) and my parents dont allow me to go out and hang so itll be hard for uss to date and meet except for school 4th- the other problem is that i would have to meet her parents....and i feel really scared and intimanated by that and she'd have to meet mines which would be an even greater problem so help!!!! what should i do thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question to marixa, yes i have talked to her friends but i still dont no what to do..
and im 14...
but thank you anyways to eryone who answered..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): Have you tried asking her how she feels? If not, that would be a good way to start. If ur too shy try asking one of her friends, it's worth a shot.
As for ur parents not letting you date. You should have a talk with them, I think ur old enough to have a social life, maybe they have good reasons why their so protective.
Meeting your girlfriends/boyfriends parents is a scary thing, but just imagine that she might feel the same way about meeting yours. If you do ask her out, try to be each others support system when meeting each others parents, things can't go that bad.
Just remember, if you risk nothing you risk everything..
Hopefully I helped. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): The fear of loosing the friendship may be valid. If you're ok being just friends keep it that way. You say you're 18-21, if so I think it's time you sit down and talk about some things with your dad. It's unhealthy to not have a social life, even if you have school. You need to be able to get out and do things and you're old enough to not have your dad stand in the way of that. If you really care about her you'll be willing to meet her parents. It might be scary, but just go for it and show her just how much you care. In regards to not knowing how she feels, try to figure it out. Sometimes life is about going for things. You need to sort out your mind and your heart and your life. Hope this helps.
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