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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I really like this guy, I thought he liked me too, we text and or phone every single day all day from good morning to night night texts etc, at least 20 texts a day!!It was my birthday two weeks ago and he hasn't even mentioned it, I did tell him when it was, a while ago now. He obviously wasn't listening which shows he's obviously not that interested in me!We've been texting and phoning each other like this for ages. Few months now, he acts like he likes me but he isn't asking me on a date, should I just accept that we will only ever be friends?
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Hi,Sorry that he didn't remember your birthday. I hope you had a nice day on your birthday. Well, I have to agree that you both are very good friends, and it's obvious by the number of times you both text, call each other daily. You mentioned that you've been friends fir months now, but he has not ask you out on a date? Question:During those months, do you guys spend time together, do things together, meet at all? Or, you just contact each other by phone, but never meet?I am going to be honest with you, but remember, this is only my opinion, only you know the truth. But, if he hasn't asked you out on a date after so many months contacting you daily, my guess is that he thinks of you as a friend. To get to the bottom, why don't you suggest him to meet? Nowdays, many women ask guys out, and there's nothing wrong with it. Be casual, not formal, just ask him to meet for drinks, so you guys can spend some quality time together, and talk. See from there, his reaction. If he refuses, dont get mad, or hurt, make little comment like, maybe some other time. Whatever the truth is, at least you will know where you stand, and if the feeling is mutual. At least you know, so you can accept him as friend, and don't have to wonder, and expect more from him. I hope this helps. Good luck
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reader, N91  +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Is there any particular reason that you can't ask him out? Lol
Women can make the first move as well you know, chance it, it may work out, if not at least you have your answer either way.
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