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writes:me and my sister wer staying at my aunties house each evening after school because she was our baby sitter she had 2 children, my 2 cousins who wer 3 and 4 years older than me.my cousin C was 3 1/2years older than me and she would always bully me and push me around i no we were just children but she would be really spiteful and make up lies about me and tell my auntie that i had hit her and called her names, which i didnt it was awful when she would beat me up and even push me down the stairs once she even broke my arm. but anyway when i was around 7/8 one day she locked us both in the bathroom when no one was at home and my auntie was next door then forced me to take off my clothes i was screaming for her to let me go but she wounldnt then she made me have sex with her. i didnt even know what it was so she grabed me and showed me i was crying the entire time. she continued on doin this for months until my sister and i didnt have to shay there any more i was soo releaved but have never told anyone at all. i was too scared but the worst thing is that wen i was 9 my auntie died, r.i.p, bt c cam and lived with us and has been living here ever since. nothing happened when she came and lived with use and we never talked about it but i feel it has really affected me....what should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): Can your sister back you up? Check if she is willing to do so, and if she is then you should tell your parents. The last thing you want in life is to be living with a person who had done such terrible things to you in the past. What she did to you and forced you to do would is probably considered rape.
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reader, kansasdude408  +, writes (3 August 2008):
Hey I know that it is tough to think about what has happened to you, but remember you have to be strong and keep o thinking positive. The best way to get over your fears and problems is to confront them head on and expose them for what they really are. As my hero Steve Wilkos says you can not back down no matter how great the odds are you have to fight for what you belive is right no matter how hard it is even if you loose your battle think about it like this. You exposed your demons for what they really are and you slayed them and you will fill 10 times better about yourself after you have gotten this burden off your shoulders. Noe remember there are alot of knuckelheads and bellyrubbers in this world that are going to contradict you but you have to just keep up the battle and you will be ultimatly a more happy person good luck and rember "when life gives you lemons make lemonaide"
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reader, O Connor +, writes (3 August 2008):
 my god im so sorry that this happened to you - she was older than you and should have known that wat she was doing was absolutely wrong. now that you're older, have you considered confronting her about it? she needs to face wat she did and apologise for it. let her know that even though you were a child, you still remember it and have been affected by it. talk to her and tell her that you will never forgive her for wat she did and you hope she knows how mentally messed up that is. also tell her that you want to tell someone about it or talk to someone. i think that this girl owes you a huge explanation for wat she did. email me if you wanna talk more and need help with anything. keep in touch xxx
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