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Absence didn't make his heart grow fonder! So what can I do?

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Question - (23 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok fanku all for ur answer on my 1st question!!I've took what both readers said into consideration... but now i'm not so sure what to think, we don't live in the same town so we have to travel to see eachother at the minute its been me going to see him. i left his on tuesday afternoon after i'd had the 2nd chat wiv him bout him not showing me any affection. I told him i would wait till he gets in contact with me he has a few ways of doing that but i still have heard nothing from him, my brother is up there at the minute as he is dateing my boyfrieds cousin and they all live togeather.. i've spoken to both my brother and his cousin and he's been in the room but hasnt asked to speak to me or got in contact with me what should i do next?? because i thought if i didnt get in touch with him they say absence makes the heart grow fonder but i believe it hasnt worked with him what should i do next?? please help i'm seriously thinking about ending this with him and that i dont want to do but i need to feel loved back.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007):

I don't know what your first question was.

However, if absence has not made him miss you, and he has not contacted you, then what you must do is......nothing.

Look, you have spoken to him on two separate occasions about his lack of affection for you. He has not responded in a satisfactory manner.

If he wanted to, he WOULD be in touch with you, and you WOULD see a definite change in his behavior. That you are not seeing anything of the kind, speaks for itself.

I think that ending it with him, based on this, would not be unreasonable......

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