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writes: After reading and responding to others, I've noticed that some wives will say they've given their all, cleaning, cooking, laundry, and the children.Out of these 4 items I've listed, children and cooking (to me) is the most important. I recall finding out to late from my kids and wife, that certain things were not done, that was the highest of priorities. My oldest child had a problem with eye sight. My wife was taking him to the doctor and I thought everything was going fine. About 10 years later, I find out that my son was suppose to be practicing eye excercises and he wasn't, and my wife gave up: I wish she would have told me, because he is legally blind, and with the excercises, this wouldn't have happened.Again, my oldest son, we moved to a new state and when he was admitted to school, the school dropped him back 1 year because the state goes by birthday, ignoring he had already finished this grade (first) with high marks. From this point, I noticed he became sader and sader. When I asked him, he said he was bored in school. It was then that I found out he was held back a grade, and being he was unhappy with school, I decided to go to school to work this out. The principle and I agreed that if my son finish 7th with high marks, exceeds to the degree that all of his teachers agreed he did very well, the school would allow him to skip a grade. At the end of this school year, everyone was pleased with my son. When I confronted the principle, he started to make excuses why he shouldn't skip a grade. I then suggested that I would sue the school, and they bumped him an extra grade higher. His last 4 years in school (high) he was very happy and got very good grades.I was very upset what happened to my son, parents are there to help them, be the police, judge, protector of there rights.If women would ask there husbands what is more imortant, I'm sure most would say food and children.This communication doesn't stop with the above, but also is required for each individuals personal needs; growth; emotional state. We all need to be aware, and attentive to each others needs, I think relationship would work better and there would be less divorces.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Hunny
I agree hunny great article, Good dad XXXXX
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