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A song for feelings

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Article - (26 May 2009) 1 Comments - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A male Philippines age 30-35, anonymous writes:

You know, I find it funny how a simple thing like a song changes things. Like a few months ago when my girl left me, I sat down on a bench and I heard the song Vegas by All Time Low. I noticed how the lyrics just made things feel better. The song reminded me of how much I still had, my friends, family, etc. From then on I've listened to it when I got sad or discouraged. But then in January, a friend of mine came to me(see in http://www.dearcupid.org/question/plain-confused.html) and I tried to help her, after which my parents lost trust in me and people hated me. When I got home, I just lied down in my room and listened to the song. This time it could not help. I played in again and again, until the happy, upbeat song became depressing, sad songs. They made things worse and just kept reminding me of what I've done and what I lost. My brother then came and just changed the song, he played Vegas again. I was brought back, and my spirit was lifted.Then a week later, my parents and I talked and patched things up. And everyone else forgave me. A simple song gave me the strength to talk to my parents, a simple song brought me back from depression, a song got me through the worst times in my life. But a simple song also brought me down, a song dug my grave deeper. I guess the point of all of this was that music does change people, both writers and listeners.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009):

Music will forever be an important influence in your life and as you grow up, you will realise that the bigger the problem (expecially ones concerning love) these songs will just seem to make MORE sense.

And yes I find it funny music makes us feel better or worse. :)

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