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writes: I've kind of met a new girl. I didn't plan on being with anyone so soon because me and my ex broke up only a few weeks ago and it was hard for me. Now this new girl has come into my life and I'm starting to feel happy once again. We're both just coming out of bad break ups and are kinda helping each other through it. We both agree we don't want to get hurt again and are taking it slow. I'm really beginning to like her, but for some reason I'm feeling guilty. Is it too soon for me to move on and should I feel bad about getting over the girl that broke my heart so quickly?
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reader, pops +, writes (8 October 2005):
You are perceptive that you may be dragging into a new relationship some of the problems from the old. Sit down and make a list of the good and bad of the old relationship, and be honest in assessing the blame between yourself and your ex over why that relationship ended. You both made mistakes. Learn from them. Then be honest to your new friend. Talk about the mistakes you made. It will help her see who you are, and maybe help her see the mistakes she made with her ex. Once you both clear the air about the past relationships, you can start creating your own, together. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2005): No dont feel guilty, feel lucky that you found someone that understands the same feelings that you are going through. And by the way, what is to soon? a week, a month, a year. Every one is different, and will handle things in there own way. You are doing the best thing by taking it slow, but you cant help feelings. Dont be so hard on yourself x good luck
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