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A guy who pressurised me into sex never used a condom with his other partners... Now I feel a burning sensation... What should I do?

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Question - (21 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 14 and Ive lost my virginity to a lad who made me feel pressured into having sex with him..He wasnt a virgin and has never used a condom with any of his sexual partners.. He hit me alot and had sex with my friends when i wudnt have sex with him..When I finally gave in to him i was devostated and finished him now it burns when i urinate and its itchy and sore...its been weeks since i had sex with him but the symtoms arnt goin plzz plzz help =(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007):

Thank You for all your time and help i really appreciate it =)

I will make an appointment x

Thanks once agen =]

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntDefinetly go see your gp straight away. Your GP will probably give you antibiotics to clear up anything you may have got Also talk to someone about what you are going through like your mum, sister or a close friend. I wouldn't class any of the girls friends who slept with your boyfriend because you wouldn't. Also tell these girls he's slept with that you caught something as they may have got it too if he is sleeping about.

Also what this guy did to you was WRONG. A guy should never raise a hand to a girl, & vice versa. Plus he should never have made you feel pressurised in to having sex. Next time hunni put your foot down and say no, and if you decide to go ahead with sex then make sure the lad wears a condom. Tell him if he doesn't then you wont have sex with him!

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007):

Go to the doctor right away, and please, PLEASE don't let guys ever pressure you into sex. Believe me, I speak from experience, you'll hate yourself when you're 30 for not punching them in the face like they deserve.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007):

Please go to your doctor right away. It maybe just a simple infection, but it could be something more serious. Don't wait and call to make an appointment today.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2007):

love-him agony auntHia babii sounds like you have got an sti.. or infection.. see your GP at once babii.. and for what your ex did was sooo wrong!! tell someone babii, an adult, someone you can trust, make sure someone else knows... mail me if u wna talk x x x

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