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writes:I was at a party last weekend and the guy I fancy ended up kissing one of my friends whilst I was sitting right next to him.I went upstairs and, having had too much to drink, started sobbing. My other friend's boyfriend came to comfort me and he made a pass at me. Nothing happened but now he's dumped her, and there is rumours it's because he wants me.Despite the guy I fancy denying he likes my friend he kissed, I'm so confused as to what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): I'd do nothing. This guy who made a pass at you still had his girlfriend at the time, which is despicable. You didn't respond to his pass, and just because there's rumours he likes you, you don't have to respond.
Maybe the guy you like was pretty drunk too, which is why he ended up kissing this other girl. Maybe not. Wait a while, and see how it all pans out. Chances are it'll all blow over and everything will be back to normal. Just be a good friend to this guy, if he like you back it'll happen.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Wise Bear  +, writes (12 June 2007):
Are the rumors true or are they just wishful thinking? Do you have any real attraction for the other guy who made a pass at you? Sounds like the guy you fancy is just really out to have fun! Snogging your friend and all. If he really liked you why did he have to kiss your friend or is this an epiphany he had after he kissed your friend? I can say a million things about this but the bottom line is about what you want. My guess is you'll probably find a way to get with this guy as he seems rather easy and then he'll find away to snog another girl. Drunk or not. Since through his own admission he doesn't even have to like the girl before he kisses her! I think that says something. I wouldn't risk it. I'd just kiss him and run!
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