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writes:So I got a dilemma. There is this girl I like at work. I really like her, I never connected with anyone like this before, people probably say that a lot but I've been through a lot of crap to know she is the real deal. I'm her boss though but she is quitting at the end of the month. The last night I that I'm going to work with her should I tell her how I feel? We get along really well, she seems to stand really close to me sometimes and we always talk about stuff outside our work lives. she slaps me on the arm when I tease her. We both seem to like the same things. Its funny because a customer I was helping said that me and her should date, and she started to turn red. I don't know what to do. I don't want to creep her out, but I can't stop thinking about her. She is by far the most perfect person ever. What the hell am I suppose to do?
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reader, spartautopio +, writes (11 November 2008):
spartautopio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm hurting a lot. I don't know what to do or how to make it stop. this is like nothing I have ever faced before. there was this girl i met back in spokane where i use to work, long story short i never met anyone like her and trust me i've been through so much drama to know that she is the real deal here. i moved back home and she pushed me out of her life. now i can't stop thinking about her its been like 3 months, i think about her every day seriously no joke i see or hear things that remind me of her. I compare every girl i meet to her i know that sounds bad but in my opinion she was everything i could have ever asked for. I had a bad dream last night that i kept trying to get her to talk to me and she just kept pushing me away, it hurts a lot. now i feel like there is no one else out there. i don't know what to do. how do i get past this one?
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Your so welcome. Its lovely that you took the chance and it worked out.
XXX Good luck
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reader, spartautopio +, writes (6 August 2008):
spartautopio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i told her i really enjoy her company and that we should get coffee sometime, so we exchanged numbers and i told her id call her thursday and she was like "now i'll definilty see you" lol. it was awesome thanks everyone for the help and advice.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (21 July 2008):
How about!! "It would be a shame to lose contact with you, now your leaving. Would you like to meet up sometime for lunch, and a chat".
If this girl likes you it wont matter what you say really.
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reader, spartautopio +, writes (20 July 2008):
spartautopio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo now that I convinced myself im guna tell her how i feel, well sorta, i don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or anything, whats a nice easy way to say hey your cool i want to hang out with you, but a little more sly or clever than that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Definetely tell her how you feel! By what you said you would make a very sweet couple. You have nothing to lose! if you dont u'll always be wondering what if... so go for it! Good luck! x
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (17 July 2008):
If she's leaving anyway, what does it matter. Tell her how you feel, and then if she doesnt feel the same you wont have to face her.
I think she probably likes you though, from what you said.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): To my mind it's quite simple! You tell her that you think she's lovely and that you really, really would like her to stay in touch with you after she leaves because you fancy the arse off her. Probably better to be a little more subtle than that, but I'm sure you get the picture.
If you don't act soon she'll be gone forever. Maybe she feels the same about you, but you ain't gonna know unless you take that great leap of faith and tell her how you feel about her. Who cares if you make an ass of yourself in front of her if she turns you down? Just make sure the two of you are alone when you tell her. Once she's gone you won't have to worry about that anyway.
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