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writes:I am married, but recently have realized that I am not happy with our marriage. I have talked to my husband about it and we are trying to work it out. My question is actually re: a friend. He must have noticed that things were different b/t my husband and I. He asked ne if everything was okay and I told him the situation. I know that he did not ask my husband about what was going on. He came to me. They were friends b4 me and I am kind of shocked he would talk to me first. He said anytime I needed him to let him know. Should I be concerned about his motives or do you think he was just being nice? Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 maybe he thought your partner wouldnt divulge in him men are very quiet about things so he thought he would ask you.. but you nnever no just be careful good luck aphex xx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 A genuine friend would be concerned. Be careful not to divulge too much though. Talk to your husband about it. If your friend has high morals, there is no bad intent. Only you know the relationship between you and him. Be careful though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy wouldn't he talk to my husband b4 he talked to me? That is the part that confuses me.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (20 August 2008):
i agree with cupid guy it could fall a few ways but by WHAT you have said seems he was concerned for you and his buddy and just wants to be a shoulder but just be careful about what you say and do if you dont want to give off the wrong impression.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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