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writes: Hi, I am in a really big muddle and this may be a long question but I need to tell someone, as it is stuck in my head and I will end up blurting it out to someone I don't want to know. You see, last week my mum's friend decided to tell everybody that my dad wasn't my real dad (luckily I already knew there was a 3rd party biological guy involved but I had never met him) and I got really upset over it as I had no idea she knew. It caused me and my dad (the one I have known and lived with every second of every 13 years of my life and was there when I was born) to fall out. My mum and her mate and my dad have fallen out and it caused loads of arguements around people and I was and am still really hurt. So every night now I think to m self while I lay in bed and wonder why there is such evil and selfish people about, and why she did it. Now my boyfriend and I have had a falling out as I have been stressed and upset and have been a bit funny with him and he hasn't spoke tome for 6 days. I am so worried about everybody. No one else has spoke to me for 3 days and I feel like a loner and I need to talk. What shall I do now. I am slowly losing all the people who I love a lot! Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (16 February 2006):
 Dearie, i feel for you. of course u have the right to feel upset.it wasnt this woman place to blot out something like that.
I know that you are angry with your parents and people around since you arent sure how she found out in the first place, but u shouldnt let this woman cause more problems than she already has. Dont push your family and friends away instead drag them closer.
Dont let the distance keep piling talk to your family and boyfriend, apologise if u need to it isnt their fault really. Even if anyone of them chose to confide in this woman iam sure it wasnt for the wrong reasons it was perhaps to ask for an advise.
Take care now and all the best
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