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36-40,
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writes:Hello - I have a girl in my office and i think i like her. But, i was hesitant to approach her directly, as she is from other process and team. So, i started keeping sticky notes on her workstation like congratulating her on her promotion etc.. recently, I saw her in an Ethnic ladies suit and kept a sticky note on her workstation by telling her, that she was looking very beautiful in that ethnic suit. Yesterday, when i visited her workstation in her absence, i found that she has placed my given sticky note on her workstation. I felt really good. Could you guys please advise, what does it mean and if she is really interested in me and how should now i approach her, because, i know that she is aware that i am her secret admirer, who keeps all those sticky notes on her workstation.Thank you.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (2 November 2015):
You have to approach her otherwise what’s the point of the notes? If she knows you are the admirer then there’s nothing to lose by striking up a conversation and seeing if you can at least start a friendship that might develop. Perhaps you could say something like “Ah, I see you kept my note.” She may not know exactly how to respond, but then just ask her how she is, how work is going etc. You need to start talking before you can do anything else, then worry about asking her on dates if that’s what you still want.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, supermum +, writes (2 November 2015):
 I am sorry hun but we can't tell you what she is feeling... how would we know?
Why not write on a sticky note "Want to go out for coffee some time?" And see where that gets you?
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