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A better position that isn't so uncomfortable..?

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Question - (10 February 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2006)
A female , *nknown2 writes:

Hey,

I was wondering if maybe there was an ideal position to have anal sex... Every time I have tried to have it, it just doesnt work. It ends up hurting was too much to even try again.

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (16 February 2006):

mystify agony auntlying on your sides facing the same way, its easier and you are free to move away when it gets too much, but at the end of the day if it hurts too much just dont do it!

its supposed to besomething you both enjoy, i would never do it despite a few beggings, but i will "talk dirty " about it this seems to satisfy,...maybe something you could try instead

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

Try having him use his finger for a couple of weeks until you get used to it then have him use two fingers. Make sure his nails are trimmed though. Then once you try it make sure you take it VERY slow and gentle, and like anonymous wrote... being on top helps a whole lot, and the guy likes it better too!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

Him lying on his back and you sitting on top of him, lean forward and it makes it feel so much better. I find it doesnt hurt as much this way, but still use loads and loads and loads of lube. another trick to make it more enjoyable for both of you is to get a vibrator and rub it over his balls. he gets pleasure from it and so do you.

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A female reader, saucey +, writes (10 February 2006):

the way to enjoy a bum fuck is to sexually arouse each other using tongues . you`ll be wanting it again and again and with such a lubricated entry you`ll be very suprised

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

always keep some lub handy , i found lub really helps when it comes to anal sex, it hurts when you just try take it all at once but make him put a little bit in at a time until it feels ok.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

Best suggestion I can come up with here then is... Not to do it.

It's like when you're a kid and get a tic-tac/bullet/marble stuck up your nose/ear/front-bottom. Some things just aren't meant to be pushed into orifices they don't belong in.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2006):

i am not an expert on this but i can tell u what i like when i have anal sex, either you are the guy rub on your clit, it feels much better it still hurts a little but feels better in the long run....

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