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He's looking for a wife, and I havnt told him hes my dream guy yet :S

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Article - (21 December 2008) 4 Comments - (Newest, 17 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, ouchi writes:

What do I do What do I do What do I do?...

I fell in love with him in 9th grade, he spoke to me in my freshmen year of college we've talked ever since (5 years now) we've shared love sexually and intellectually but we never dated. I always kept a cool (making sure I wasn't that annoying clingy gf type) but I definitely fell for him and I fell hard. Now I have a new prince charming coming to marry me which seemed cool to me at first because I thought I still had options...until...I found out the boy I was CRAZYLY INSANE about since the 9th grade is looking for a wife!

Does this mean he found out about me and loved me the whole time and was hurt by the fact I was getting married so went and looked? I dont know but all I know is my heart fell in two. I cant do this I want to tell him I love him, I want to tell him hes the guy I CANT live without. But im not sure what his reaction will be. I'm scared I know Im a good looking girl, and the problem is i never had to confront a guy that I like him, I was so used to guys always telling me they want me and how much they want to be with me that now I have no courage to do it. I dont know how to I dont know if its a good idea and im sort of freaking out, I dont go a day without thinking about him (literally for the past 5 years) what the hell does a girl like me do????

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A female reader, amaette Nigeria +, writes (17 January 2009):

pls hold on to prince charming.if the other guy was in love with you he would have made a move, stop dreaming. we don't appreciate the things we have until we loss them

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A male reader, roadman United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2009):

roadman agony auntgo 4 it!

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A female reader, jessinit United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2008):

you did the worst thing possible, gettin sexually invloved and leaving it as that. you mean it as benefitting friends now not lovers! find ur happy ending get this man and do it fast!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008):

You love him.

Just tell him straight and get your happy ending :)

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