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*oni19
writes:Please, somebody give me some advice! I am a 29 yr old married female. I am coming up on my 9th wedding anniversary in less than a month. I have completely lost interest in sex with my husband. We used to have a great sex life, but over time I have just lost interest. On top of that, my husband is giving me hell because of it, which of course, only makes it worse. I understand where he is coming from but I don't know what to do to get my sex drive back. I've looked online and there isn't a miracle drug like Viagra to help women. What can I do? I'm sure some of my lack of desire stems from my negative body image issues, but those have always been there and I still had a sex drive in the past. Please somebody, somewhere, please help me! I am losing my mind and possibly my husband. I don't know what to do to get my sex drive back. Please help!!!!
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reader, irishpride8689 +, writes (28 March 2010):
Ok, sounds strange but watch some "girl-friendly" porn before hand and arouse yourself. Try to find a girl that has a body similar to you. I have a few body issues (small breasts) but a voracious sex appetite. Watching a girl with the same looking body will make you feel more sexy considering the guy, or girl, on camera is loving that person in every way because they are giving them pleasure to no end, and probably with those "body image problems". try pornhub.com or redtube.com they are spam free.
If you dwell on it, you only become less interested in sex, I know first hand. I have a bf who likes sex onces a week-2weeks, and I want more, but if i dwell on it, I become depressed on not having sex and uninterested, think it's because I don't look good,he's looking elsewhere ect...
Trust me, have sex 2 times a week for one month , play around (ex: wrestle in bed, tickle, slap/grab butt, fall asleep holding hands, hug each other when you come home from work for 20sec.) Your self-esteem will sky rocket and it will raise your endorphines. Just try it, you have NOTHING else to lose. :) Hope It all goes well
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I have used some intensification gel or what not go to a sex shop and look for it they have many kinds it has been a while since i used it but it was awesome and it worked i dont remember which one i used but it enhances feeling makes you horny neway. I used it when my bf wanted to have sex and i had no desire at all for some reason a weird phase i went through for a couple of months. they have pills too I had good results i dont remember its been atleast three years its worth a shot. but it maybe a hormonal imbalance like the first post sugested, your only 29 though so i think its probly not but im not an expert.Good Luck I know it worked for me
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