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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend has had a problem with being faithful for almost two years on and off since weve been together, now i am 9 months pregnant and we are currently separated but supposed to be "working on ourselves" he is still being sneaky and is still up to no good, i do love him and he swears he loves me but i just don't know anymore for the sake of my child what should i do i dont want him growing up in a broken home? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, O Connor +, writes (10 July 2008):
he swears he loves you but he's been cheating on you for 2yrs? hun thats not love, that getting the best of both worlds. he now knows that he can do it, because you let him and havent given him reason to stop.
i think that you should get this guy out of your life - he is not good for you or your baby and it doesnt look like the cheating is going to stop any time soon.
would you rather your baby grow up in a home with a cheating, lying father?, or a home with a happy single mother and a father that visits? its up to you wat you want for him/her, but i think the latter is best.
this man is not good for you either hun, why be with a guy who doesnt want to be with you? you deserve better.
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