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writes:Hi i just turned 49 this year and was with some friends when i realized that i was the only one without a family. In fact i have never had any real relationship before... the closest i got was in 98' when a work partner(also a good friend) moved away and bought a computer to keep in touch, for about 6months we shared what seemed like a very intermit relationship over the internet using nothing more then an old BBS system i had setup for work. Then one day she told me she had been seeing someone else for the last month and that he had proposed to her. I tried to convince her that she should get to know him more before saying yes, but she did not listen and what was a daily conversation, turned into once a month... once a year... and then she stopped talking to me all together.So now its been 11years of loneliness and want to know if i'll ever find someone i can love. I have money and haven't aged too badly... my fear is that every woman around my age already has a family and don't have the time for things like this anymore. This is something i've wanted all my life, since i was 10 i've been asking and asking but the only answer i get is "sorry" or "i can't". A few years ago i told some friends that i was a virgin and they tired to get me to go to a prostitute but i refused. I really don't know what to do with my life now, perhaps its the end for me? i wish i knew.
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reader, Shiro  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Gods time is the best one day you'll find your own match so dnt give up.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 you could try being more aggressive pursue women younger then you by like 10 or 15 yrs.. love is something you cant really look for you just get lucky enough to find it... i dont think having a family is all that big of a deal your kids grow up to hate you and wife becomes a bitter old lady..
Paul states that marriage is the “cure” for sexual immorality. First Corinthians 7:2 is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.
Not to get all Biblical on you but according to Paul the only reason to get married is to have sex without committing a sin...
I suggest enjoy your wealth find God and live your life marriage and families are overrated...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): Thank you for your help, i'm starting to rethink my situation and have decided its too late in life to be worried about this stuff.
The only thing i miss is having my own family, but maybe in another life time, theres plenty of people who have it worse then me so i should stop bickering and go to sleep. bye bye
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 No, It's not the end, not at all. Don't discourage since people find love at all ages...you're not in your seventies so in addition to love, you can also start a family. So, put yourself out there more. If you havent the time or are too shy, dating websites can help and there are real people there too who search for love...just dont get stuck in e-mail phases, the more physical interactions the better. Women your age are sometimes divorced if single and this can (sometimes) come with baggage, u might have to ready yourself for that. If a younger woman comes along..maybe ten years younger, dont shun her, give her a chance, you wont be regarded as a craddle robber or whatever for that age difference. But, love is a battlefield. It's never smooth running. If you truly want it and seek it, it can be yours. Great things come to those who wait.
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